Another satisfied customer here! But, something is going wrong...two questions based upon that.
1. I have been doing C&F pretty well, and my dates respond as they should. The problem comes later. How should I end a date? What to say and do?
2. This is one that is throwing me off: At least five times recently, I ended a date that was very successful by all accounts. C&F kept it lively and my date interested and attracted. The date ends with her saying she really wants to get together again soon, etc. The next day, I receive an e-mail saying something like, "On my way home, I thought about the date and I just want to take things slowly" or "I apologize for being so forward, I don't know what came over me. I don't want to lead you on, and I have decided I am not going to date anyone for a while." !!! Three women told me I was their last date for a while because they were so confused!
What is going on, Dave?
SF , Seattle WA
» MY COMMENTS:
Oh, you are running into a VERY interesting problem here.
And the answer is probably not at all what you'd expect.
My guess is that these women are feeling VERY attracted to you, but you're not taking things to a PHYSICAL level with them, so they're getting confused and excusing themselves.
If you go out with a woman, and she feels ATTRACTED to you, but you don't do anything with that attraction, and instead say "OK, good night", you will scare women away.
If you're going to be turning them on, you'd better take the next step.