Thanks a lot David, NOT!!! I've been reading your mails for a while now and I've unconsciously been integrating the "Cocky&Funny" into my personality (which is great by the way), and it's so much fun that I've realized that I do it all the time (I've also realized that being cocky and funny with a girl is just as if you were messing around with your male friends' heads). But yeah so I've got a complaint or success story, I'm not sure which it is: so there's this girl who I've met about a year ago and we've been best friends since then... and then the other day she admitted to my face that she had been in love with me for the past six months!!!!!!!! It makes me feel great about myself... but on the other hand it sucks cuz she was a really great friend, almost a sister, so I'll never be able to go out with her (and there's nothing wrong with the looks or anything). So yeah, I think you should put a surgeon general's warning on your "Cocky&Funny". WARNING: may cause you to be unexplainably attractive to (almost) anyone! So yeah, a word of advice to all those reading the newsletters, be careful who you use the C&F with!