Please come round here and kill me I am so pathetic. Ive read your book twice now and should be putting some of it to good use. But it seems that I am completely inept at doing so. Ive just been talking to this fine young lady at the gym. (By the way Ive been out of circulation for quite some time now since my divorce and I'm way out of practice) Anyway I was just talking to her and all of a sudden I started to go into wuss mode I even forgot here name as soon as she told me so i asked here it again, so pathetic! I also hung around for a little bit to long plus I never asked for her email.
Now I would really like to get to know this girl take her out on a date etc. But I'm really sure that I've blown my chances. Although she seemed interested mostly apart from the forgeting her name part Next time I see her I really want to recover the situation and act properly, maybe I should pretend to forget her name again make a joke of it. what do you think.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
By the way your last news letter was awesome, very informative, I just hope that I can put it to some good use and become a "Jedi Master!"
Best regards
AM
Lancaster, England.
» MY COMMENTS:
Hey, you're doing fine.
Every one of us is in a different place in life, and you're going to get this figured out.
The more you deal with attractive women, the more relaxed you'll NATURALLY become, and the more easily you'll remember to do the things you need to do in these situations.
Next time you see this woman, just go about your business and see if she starts talking to you. If not, no big deal.
The second time you see her at the gym, then talk to her. At that point, casually say "Hey, do you have email?" Then get it and LEAVE IMMEDIATELY... have somewhere you're going... don't linger.
Send her a charming email, and meet her for tea. You're doing great.
And by the way, stop calling me Doctor. Everyone's going to start thinking that I'm smart or something.
Hey, maybe I should get one of those Internet PhD's, huh?